Discover how to

Find The One
For You!

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Are you ready for love?
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Discover how prepared you are today for love and the responsibilities of a relationship.

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There are also short and fun quizzes at the end of each chapter to test how well you understand the book so far.

Relatable stories and experiences to show you that you don't have to guess your way to finding the right partner for you.

Everyone is expected to learn how to be better at everything but love. We are all supposed to be automatic experts when it comes to loving and choosing our partners.

But what if that needs to be learned too? How do you know how to find the one for you? How do you know that you are ready to love and be loved? How do you free your mind from the wrong ideas of love that the media and society have taught?

These are the questions this book seeks to answer. In Pursuit of The One, you will find relatable stories and experiences shared by the author, to show you that you don't have to guess your way to finding the right partner for you.

Additionally, you will find exercises and tools to help you challenge your preconceived notions and limiting beliefs, and embrace long-lasting love. Read more

Rich Conversations.

Engaging Community.

Palpable Growth.

Join a budding and exciting community of young people who are passionate about doing love the right way. Guess what? You could just find the love of your life in there lol!

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Reviews

"His journey to love might not have been the easiest one, but the fruit of it, is bound to make yours easier. Beyond experience, there is an ancient wisdom with contemporary relevance that will grip you as you go through these pages. From Chapter Zero (I’m not kidding, there literally is a chapter zero) until the end, this is a page-turner, desire-tuner, sense-giver, life-saver, and relationship-game changer. Now a happily married man, Tolu has been through a lot, just so you won’t have to. And for that, I am thankful."

- Laju Iren (Bestselling Author, Dating Intelligently )

"The first thing that struck me about this book is the coverage; it did a good job of covering major topics on dating to knowing the one for you. The author didn’t mince words on where the scripture stands but also displays wisdom in weaving the words together. It is a book of answers to questions you have asked about relationships and those you haven’t had the confidence to ask."

- Olabisi Ola-Soetan (Secret Place Wife )

"This book is so useful, I love it.
PT did an excellent job making it relatable and applicable. We live in a time where everyone wants, and demands, but doesn't want to become and this book fixes that."

- Oreoluwa Shonibare (Husband, CEO WiiCreate )

"A relevant and relatable book that unveils an enigmatic subject with practical wisdom and great intentionality. Both content and delivery are gripping and you will definitely see improvements and/or good results if you action all the learning points. I guarantee that you will learn more about yourself, God, and others around you, just as much as you learn about love and romantic relationships. This book leaves nothing to be desired."

- Ore Macauley (God's story telling gift )

"This Book is such an all-encompassing book. It answers almost every question that a person could have on Relationships, from correcting nuances and wrong ideas to addressing even spiritual misconceptions. It's definitely a must-read for every Single, Dating and Married Person!"

- Pastor Oge C Ogwe (Lead Pastor, Circle Church )

"I think of ‘In Pursuit of the One’ as a one-stop-shop for any questions you have about relationships. The wisdom in the book is extremely refreshing and conforms only to the word of God. I also thought it was really endearing that the writer shared really personal stories with us - and not just the nice, good stories but even the ones that help us learn from his mistakes. I completely recommend this book to anyone who needs guidance on the journey to a Godly, loving and non-toxic marriage."

- Pastor Adeboro Rotimi (Pastor, Author: 'For those who love love' )

"When I read In Pursuit of the One, the first thing that came to mind was how comprehensive it was. No matter what dating question you have, you can be sure you’ll find an answer here. Thank you PT for giving us your all in this much-needed book."

- Folashade Daini (Wife, Mom, Youtuber )

"There’s no question people have asked about love and matters of the heart that isn’t covered in this book. The excellence and precision is noteworthy. I love how the subtitles are so detailed and enticing. They just make you want to dive into the book already and read away😂😂👌🏼. Thousands and millions of young people in this generation and the ones to come would be saved from wrong dating & marital decisions just because of the wisdom in this book and that’s on period!"

- Jay Okoli

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About
The Author

"Tolulope Oludapo is driven by the endless possibilities of the media to influence lives, cultures, and human behaviour. As a storyteller, Tolulope addresses audiences all over the continent, sharing stories and life lessons learned from his relationship mistakes, and offering the clarity, consciousness, and confidence needed to get it right the first time.

He is also the Founder and CEO of LifegivaDotCom Int’l Ltd, Nigeria's foremost Christian Digital Media Company which has various expressions.

Tolulope is a Pastor at Celebration Church Int’l, serving alongside Apostle Iren Emmanuel since November 2012.

When he's not teaching or ideating and creating content strategies, he is wholeheartedly loving his wife: Oyindamola, and hosting a regular YouTube show alongside her, where they share their stories, and show people how to love in a way that is godly and fulfilling.

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